Today is my 28th birthday.
A few years ago, i was still regularly being mistaken for a teenager.
Now my youth is fading. my worth must come from other aspects of myself.
With each year that passes, i find myself more and more focused on my accomplishments (or lack thereof).
There are many things of which i am proud of:
i have been happily married for nearly a decade.
i am a good mother to my two children.
i am an active volunteer in my community.
i am good with my hands.
i know how to cook, sew, do basic home repair, and lawn work.
i make my own household cleaners which are environmentally friendly.
i am creative.
i am passionate.
i am self taught.
i have built a successful career for myself in a field that i am entirely self-educated in.
i live debt free and have a modest growing savings account.
i spoil my pets, of which i have many.
i have surrounded myself with a few good friends.
i have run a couple 5ks.
i have written, self published, and successfully sold my own books.
i have many weaknesses as well:
i’m not good at portion control.
i don’t exercise as much as i used to.
i am insecure.
i can’t dance.
i forget to floss my teeth.
i don’t know how to put on make up.
i have no fashion sense.
i don’t get enough sleep.
i tend to loose myself in my service to others.
i lack confidence.
i bite my nails.
i almost always forget my canvas bags when i go shopping.
i never shop local.
So, i have some resolutions for myself, somethings that i want to change about me before i turn 29.
By this time next year…
i will have perfectly manicured finger nails.
i will have gotten into the habit of flossing my teeth everyday.
i will have gone from 36 inches to 32 inches by eating healthy and exercising regularly.
i will have toned my arms, abs, and thighs through regular exercise.
i will have gotten into the habit of visiting the farmers market weekly for fruits and veg.
i will have eliminated plastic bags from my home.
i will have a daily self care routine that includes yoga, meditation, and/or journaling.
i will have regulated my sleep schedule and be getting at least 5 hours a night.
i will have put reasonable effort into learning how to dance.
i will have put reasonable effort into learning how to do my own make-up.
i will have built a modest wardrobe of clothes that i love and feel i look good in.
i will be more mentally prepared to age with grace and dignity.
12 goals for the next 12 months.