i get called a lot of things by men.
And sometimes i don’t mind it. Like during sex, call me Your slut, Your whore, Your dirty little cum-dumpster. By all means, if we are playing, i like that shit.
But then there are other times. When i haven’t consented to playing with a man. Or when i have once, but we aren’t playing anymore. Name calling at those times isn’t so great for me.
i get that guys like to simplify things, simplify the role of others in their life.
But here’s some things that i’m not:
i am NOT a new experience for you to try out.
i am NOT a challenge for you undertake.
i am NOT a project for you to work on.
i am NOT porn for you to look at.
i am NOT a warm, wet hole for you to use when or however you like.
If i haven’t consented to being yours, then i am especially NONE of these things to you.
i am a human being.
When treated respectfully, i am happy to share new experiences.
i am a human being.
When treated respectfully, i am happy to challenge and be challenged.
i am a human being.
When treated respectfully, i am happy to work on improving myself.
i am a human being.
When treated respectfully, i am happy to look sexy for others.
i am a human being.
When treated respectfully, i am happy to have my body used.
If you can’t treat me with respect, then i can’t consent to being anything for you.
Well put.
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